The Secrets of Spiritualism revealed

All of this is by way of setting the background to my original problem, of why I did not notice that there had been a bereavement of a number of my clients. Now I am wise to the problem, and I have found some solutions. For this purpose, there are basically five types of bereaved:

Five types of bereaved and their beliefs

  1. Those who come to a reading for a message beyond the grave
  2. Those who have belief in the Afterlife and want some communication from a spiritualist
  3. Those that have belief, but do not get any communication
  4. Those that do not believe there is an Afterlife, but are left empty nevertheless
  5. Those who want to be spiritualists themselves

You do not need to sit in circle, or attend a spiritualist church, nor do you need someone else to communicate on your behalf. You can do all this for yourself. I firmly believe in empowerment. We all have the ability to communicate with the departed, but we need to know how. I am going to reveal the secrets so you can communicate with the departed, and not just your friends and family.

There is a traditional story; if I give you several fish you can feed yourself for several meals, but if I give you a rod, line, hook, and instructions you can catch your own fish anytime you want. This is the approach I am going to take.

We have established that there is no enduring image of the Afterlife. For example, I often see my grandmother, and my great-grandfather. I never met my great-grandfather, but he helps me a lot. When I see my deceased relatives, I simply see them without a background. There is some slight luminosity in their form, against a black background, but that is all. So, there is a barrier to communication in beliefs. If the deceased believes in the Land of Milk and Honey, then the spiritualist needs to have some sympathy with that belief. If the living relative believes that there is nothing when you die, there is going to be a severe mismatch. The worst case, which I have seen, is where the deceased person, had no belief in the afterlife, nor did the relatives, who were desperately unhappy because they had no means of communication.

Seeing Beyond Heaven and Hell

What I say to people is that instead of thinking in terms of heaven, or some Other Place, or believes that we simply rot in the ground; it is to have the good memories we have of that person. If it is a great aunt, or grandparent, it might be the time we spent as a child on the beach with them. Or, it could be a wonderful holiday or trip, or a meal or a walk in the park.

The advantage of this way of thinking is that we know we have a good experience for both us, and we do not rely on what we think are the beliefs of the deceased. People lie about their beliefs, often for good reasons. They want people to have a belief in religion, but they are agnostic themselves. So, remembering good shared experiences is critical.

Crucially, we also need to remember our Loved One, not how they died, from cancer, or a car accident, or other circumstances, but when they were healthy, strong, fit and happy. It is rare for a spiritualist to see the Departed connected up to a life support machine, disfigured, or dismembered. After all, if there is an Afterlife, we expect people in Paradise to be healthy and as a young adult, around twenty years old. There is one exception, when a baby or young child dies. Spiritualists will see it as the age it would be if it had lived, not the age it died. This is very much to do with the ongoing thoughts and feelings of the mother (it is invariably the mother), who imagines what the child would be doing as it got older. When a mother loses a child through abortion, or a late miscarriage, it is possible that the infant is still closely connected to her, which can cause problems.

The key to contacting the Deceased is to have an accord with their belief systems, so you have to cast aside your own beliefs. If you are certain the Deceased believed that there is Nothing, or Oblivion, then there is a problem, but this can be overcome.

If you have had children, I am sure there was a phase when they were young, where they would constantly badger you with questions, to the point where you wanted them to go away, however much you loved them. A similar thing happens with the departed. There is a danger that a compulsion or obsession arise, which results in constant speculation about when they will be seen, how they will be seen, will I be scared, and so on. Paradoxically, the key to effective communication is to stop trying to communicate!

People carry a lot of grief and guilt, for it may be that they never said “I love you…”, or showed their appreciation, or worse, said or did something terrible to the Deceased. All these negative feelings need to be put aside. The capacity to forgive is critical here. It is not about forgiveness to the Departed, whether they deserve it or not. It is about being able to forgive so you can move on.

Assuming you have been able to cast aside your own private doubts and beliefs on the Afterlife, so you can see the Departed in a place they liked to be, which could be supping a pint in the pub, or at Bingo, or shopping for clothes, or dancing. Do whatever it takes to create some kind of resonance. It might be the last time you saw the deceased alive, even if it was a nondescript event, where a few pleasantries exchanged.

Thinking well of the dead is critical here. Think of the eulogy at the Service of Remembrance, or funeral, which is usually overwhelmingly positive about the deceased. It can appear too saccharine or sweet for many of us, but nevertheless that is the best way to view the situation.

Here is the next step. This is critical – it is the key to improving your communication with Spirits of the Dead. What you need to know is that it is very likely you already have had communication with the deceased. It may have been fleeting, but people have reported smelling a characteristic scent that lasts for a few seconds, or a feeling that the deceased is around them, or by the thoughts and feelings that you experience. Some people have seen a black cat in their bedroom when they do not have any cats in the house. You may find yourself having an imaginary conversation with the Departed – you may surprise yourself with the answers you get to any questions you ask during this conversation.


newtarot www